Recently, I had two AHA moments—those small but powerful realizations that shift your perspective.
The first came while I was searching for the perfect vacation to relax and recharge. After April 15—our busiest season—my goal is always the same: to reset. I’ve been chasing this for many, many years. The challenge? I’ve never been exactly sure what would actually help me recharge.
This year, I tried something new. In May, my boys and their families came to visit. When they walk in the door, the energy level skyrockets—so does the volume! My husband Steve and I are definitely not operating on the same wavelength as our kids and grandkids. And yet… it turned out to be the perfect vacation. I came back recharged and genuinely excited to return to work.
The key? I stayed in the moment.
Yes, there were times I felt exhausted. But I’d pause, take a deep breath, and soak it all in. I made a conscious effort not to dig up the past or worry about the future.
I just focused on enjoying the now. And it worked.
My second AHA moment came when I realized I’ve been avoiding something important: defining what success truly means to me. I write about it. I talk about it. I’m great at setting goals and working toward them. But when I get close to reaching a goal, I tend to move the finish line. I always want more.
I’ve noticed I’m not great at acknowledging my achievements. And while that constant drive isn’t necessarily a bad thing, I believe I’d feel more fulfilled if I took the time to celebrate the wins along the way.
So, I’ll leave you with this:
Do you stay in the moment?
Do you celebrate your successes?
Wishing you a wonderful month ahead!
Mary Guldan-Lindstrom, CPA
